A Journey, Not a Destination
I want to start today’s post with an outstanding quote about motivation and doing:
“Success is a journey not a destination. The doing is usually more important than the outcome.”
-Arthur Robert Ashe, Jr.
Arthur Ashe was a dominant tennis player during his 12-year career between 1968 and 1979. He is considered one of the 21 greatest players in the game. I have never followed tennis, but I remember seeing Arthur Ashe play. He was the Tiger Woods of tennis in his day.
I like the quote because it reminds me that my journey towards good health is a day-by-day process. It’s likely I won’t remember the actual day I weigh in at my goal, but my guess is I will remember this two year journey for the rest of my life. And once I arrive at my goal weight, my journey isn’t complete. As I have said before, this commitment to good health is for keeps. I won’t be finished until I am laid to rest for my big dirt nap.
Another well known phrase comes instantly to mind “The way to eat a whole elephant is one bite at a time,” and it is certainly appropriate (please forgive me, the whole “eat an elephant” thing is not intended as a pun.) If we think about how much we have to lose or how far we need to go to be more healthy it can be daunting. When I weighed 450 pounds and thought about losing weight I often thought, “why bother.”
Does your journey feel overwhelming? Trust me, you are not alone. As I’ve struggled this past week I have felt like giving up. I’ve been hungry and frustrated and have felt like my world turning upside down and inside out. Why not eat some of that stuffed pizza my son brought over last night? (which by the way I did—and it was ALMOST worth it. The only thing I have to justify now is whether what I ate last night is worth the weight gain I’ll certainly see on the scales—definitely not.) But I haven’t lost sight of my ultimate desire: I want to be more healthy and I know how to get there.
Don’t give up and don’t despair. Our journey towards good health is worth every sacrifice. Make good nutritional choices. Get up off your two-spot and move more. You’ll feel better and like Arthur Ashe suggests, the journey will be much more meaningful than the destination.
To follow up the article I shared yesterday about weight lifting, I read this next piece from Jillian Michaels. It gives very helpful ideas about how to make your exercise more effective.
Have a great day and phenomenal week. I’m going to drag my carcass into physical therapy today. I do not want a gimp knee the rest of my life.
Kirk
Shake It Up
By Jillian Michaels, Losing It with Jillian Michaels, Online
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Ever hear the expression “Nothing changes if nothing changes”? If you do the same resistance routine the same way week after week, the day will come when your body will have adapted to that particular workload. In terms of weight loss, that’s not a good thing. If your body isn’t challenged beyond its comfort zone, you won’t see continual results.
Mixing things up to prevent plateaus doesn’t take much. That’s why every two weeks, my program will challenge you in new ways. Varying the number of reps and sets will constantly surprise the body, which is one way to make sure your workout continues to push you forward.
Apart from changing the number of sets and reps per exercise, you can also change the way you perform a rep. During a weight-lifting exercise, your muscles contract in three distinctly different ways:
• When you lift the weight, your muscles contract positively, or concentrically.
• At the midpoint of the exercise, when you stop moving the weight but you’re still holding it, your muscles contract statically, or isometrically.
• When you lower the weight, your muscles contract negatively, or eccentrically.
You can adjust the way you do your reps by shifting the emphasis among the three forms of muscle contraction, which provide you with three ways to do almost anything in the weight room — and endless ways to switch around your routine to keep it fresh and motivating.
Jillian’s Tip for the Day
Good for the Body, Good for the Mind
We all know that change is good — and that holds true for fitness too! After all, challenging your muscles will help you reach your fitness goals. Varying your routine is also good for your mind! Doing the same thing over and over can get stale and dampen enthusiasm. A change in focus — however slight — will keep you coming back for more.

